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The Power of Routine for ADHD Adults

The Power of Routine for ADHD Adults

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Living with ADHD means routines can be tricky. Many of my clients have shared that their ADHD symptoms make it tough to stick to a routine.  

But structure is one of the best ways to manage your ADHD symptoms. It helps you boost productivity, minimize ruminating, and keep you focused on your tasks.  

I’ll break down why routine matters so much for people with ADHD, and ways to build structure into your day-to-day life.  

Why is Structure Important When Living With ADHD? 

Structure is important for people living with ADHD because it helps them manage their symptoms better. But why is it so hard to keep a routine when living with ADHD?  

“Structure helps you regulate your emotions, keep your promises to yourself, and reduce the shame that comes with falling behind.” 

Caroline Maguire, ADHD coach and educator 

Educator and ADHD coach Caroline Maguire says that people with ADHD resist structure because it feels rigid, boring, and controlling. Yet the ADHD brain secretly loves it.

Structure helps people with ADHD reduce perceived stress, according to one 2019 study. From what I’ve seen in my clients, this is usually the case. ADHD symptoms can make it easy to procrastinate and fall behind in day-to-day life; a structured routine can keep your concentration focused on the tasks at hand and, in turn, reduce the stress of falling behind.  

What’s a Sample Routine for A Person Living with ADHD? 

Not sure where to start with your routine? Here are a few examples of evening and morning routines to get you started.  

  1. The Early Bird Routine 

[starts evening before] 

  • 8:30 p.m.: Set your alarm for the morning.  
  • 8:45 p.m.: Prepare your coffee machine to quickly brew in the morning.  
  • 9:00 p.m.: Prepare your lunch for tomorrow.  
  • 9:15 p.m.: Choose clothes you’ll wear tomorrow and set them aside.  
  • 9:30 p.m.: Brush your teeth and do your skincare routine. 
  • 9:45 p.m.: Turn off the lights and try to fall asleep by 10:00 pm.  

[8-hour sleep] 

  • 6:00 a.m.: Wake up to your alarm. 
  • 6:15 a.m.: Brush teeth and shower. 
  • 6:30 a.m.: Get dressed quickly with the clothes you selected the evening before.  
  • 6:45  a.m.: Drink a cup of coffee 
  • 7:00 a.m.: Gather your things and get out the door before 7:00 am. 
  1. The Thoughtful, Meditative Routine 

[starts evening before] 

  • 8:00 p.m.: Start a yoga class either at a studio or with YouTube at home.  
  • 9:00 p.m.: Wash the dishes and organize your space 
  • 9:30 p.m.: Take a shower. 
  • 10:00 p.m.: Turn off the lights and try to fall asleep by 10:30.  

[8-9 hour sleep] 

  • 7:00 p.m.: Wake up.  
  • 7:15 p.m.: Stretch or journal; or do something else that feels calming for about 15-20 minutes. Avoid opening social media apps or responding to text messages or emails.  
  • 7:30 p.m.: Pick out your work clothes and get ready for the day.  
  • 8:30 p.m.: Have some coffee and breakfast 
  • 9:00 p.m.: Start your workday.  
  1. The Active Routine 

[starts evening before] 

  • 6:00 p.m.: Order your week’s meal plan for lunches and dinners 
  • 6:15 p.m.: Go on an hour-long walk in the neighbourhood while listening to a podcast.  
  • 7:15 a.m.: Complete a 15-minute stretch on YouTube.  
  • 7:30 a.m.: Warm up one of your pre-made meals.  
  • 8:00 a.m.: Take a shower.  
  • 8:30 a.m.: Read a book and try to go to sleep by 9:00.  
  • 9:00 a.m.: Lights out.  

[8-9 hour sleep] 

  • 6:00 a.m.: Wake up.  
  • 6:15 a.m.: Go for a run in the neighbourhood.  
  • 7:15 a.m.: Shower and dress up for work.  
  • 8:00 a.m.: Read your calendar and emails and choose one main priority for the day.  
  • 8:30 a.m.: Start your work day.  

Feel free to adjust the exact times to better fit your lifestyle and schedule. But try to maintain consistency in the time you do each activity throughout the day.  

Tips to Maintain Structure While Living with ADHD 

Many of my clients don’t have the same ADHD treatment plan. The right combination of strategies will look different for everyone.  

Here are a few ideas to try to stick to a routine:  

  1. Use time slotting: Dedicate a specific amount of time to an activity and set an alarm when the time lapses. The Pomodoro technique of 25 minutes on, 5 minutes rest, is a good starting point.  
  1. Prioritize: Even if you have 100 tasks to do in one day, pick the most important one for each day. If you complete that task, you’re well on your way.  
  1. Maintain a consistent sleep schedule: This is a hard one for hyperactive ADHD readers. But if you set alarms to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, that’s already a routine for your body that your mind can follow after. And if you’re a night owl? You can always allot for later bedtimes over the weekend.  
  1. Visualize your tasks: Can’t keep up with your week? Get a whiteboard calendar and hang it up somewhere visible in your home. Or if you’re more of a digital person, use a scheduling app to send you reminders of important tasks.  
  1. Schedule time for you: Seeing a bunch of work or administrative commitments on your calendar doesn’t exactly spark joy. Add a few fun social events or self-care activities to your schedule, too. Those are just as important in a structured routine as your professional commitments.  
  1. Separate your work and personal space: In the age of remote and hybrid work, it’s easy to blur the lines between work and home. Keep your work separate from your living space as best as you can, whether by working from cafes or only using your work computer in a designated space at home.  
  1. Get an accountability buddy: If you’re struggling to maintain a routine, chances are you’re not alone. Talk to friends and family and see if anyone is looking to establish a similar routine. You might consider sharing updates and successes over text as a method of accountability.  
  1. Give yourself options: A routine might make someone living with ADHD feel trapped. But many of my clients overcome this feeling by giving themselves options. Instead of noting only one task for your morning, give yourself three of equal value.  
  1. Talk to a mental health professional: Managing your ADHD symptoms with therapy, coaching, or medication can improve your mood and routine. Our mental health experts will work with you to identify your needs and determine a tailored plan that fits with your lifestyle

Bottom line? People living with ADHD have a love-hate relationship with structure. On one hand, it feels limiting. On the other? It’s the ultimate freedom.  

Structure and routine give people with ADHD a blueprint to achieve their goals and stay on track with their tasks. But starting is the hardest part.  

Ready to find freedom with routine? We’re always available to chat through your unique needs and find a tailored ADHD treatment plan.  

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FAQs 

  1. Why do people with ADHD need structure? 

People with ADHD need structure because their ADHD symptoms can easily cause them to fall behind on tasks or feel overwhelmed.  

  1. What is the best routine for people with ADHD? 

The best routine depends on each individual’s needs, but some common positive routine elements could include:  

  • Waking up and sleeping at the same time every day 
  • Scheduling time for self-care and hygiene activities every day 
  • Setting aside at least two hours a day for deep, focused, and uninterrupted work 
  1. What is the 20-minute rule for ADHD? 

The 20-minute rule for ADHD refers to the amount of time you should focus on a task. This is inspired by the Pomodoro technique, which helps improve focus by allotting time to work on tasks.  

  1. Why do people with ADHD do well with structured environments? 

People wth ADHD do well with structured environments because the structure mitigates their ADHD symptoms. ADHD coach Carolin Maguire shares that structure helps people with ADHD boost productivity and avoid the shame that comes with falling behind.  

  1. What are the challenges of living with ADHD? 

People living with ADHD face numerous challenges, such as:  

  • Trouble concentrating 
  • Overthinking 
  • Rejection sensitivity 
  • Inattentiveness 
  • Lack of motivation 

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